Five More Years...
All the longer I have to deal with my exhusband. In his effort to be an asshole to me, pointing out my deficiencies as a parent, he makes my child feel inadequate. For this, I want to hurt him.
Especially since he (and his wife) say they are Christians and love Evan as much as their own children. I hope they are reminded of those declarations when they stand in judgment.
We have been divorced almost 10 years, and it's astonishing how little he's matured. It's especially frustrating, since he does and behaves just enough to keep me from winning sole custody.
Now all I want is my boy back tomorrow, away from him and the house of drama. And if my exhusband should fall upon bad luck, I wouldn't be sad for him. Jerk.
Labels: piss and moan
posted by The Girl in Black @ 5:03 AM
4 Comments:
As the "new" wife, I have had the pleasure of witnessing "psycho-Mom" in her full glory. I guess it doesn't matter which side of the court (pun intended) you are on, it's always tragic when the child(ren) of divorce are bartered and sacrificed for the self-indulgence of a bitter and/or spiteful ex-spouse.
Praise God that my stepchild has turned 18 and our financial obligation to her mother has ended and we can move on to a healthy, normal one-on-one relationship directly with the daughter that does not include her mother's participation whatsoever.
Just stay true to the parent you are and to your son's best mental and emotional interests. Kids are sharp - he'll figure his dad out in time. And like you say, dad will be the only one answerable for his manipulations on judgment day.
Or you could just kick him.
It would probably be a good idea to make it look like an accident though.
Man I am full of great advice this evening.
(see comments to Ali's post on the anorexic girl. I think you may find it oddly familiar.)
You've got a theme going on there, Missy.
And a good one, at that! Now I know the reason pointy-toes shoes have come back in style!
Hey Girl,
I agree with what was said up there. My brother and I have each come to terms with the fact that our biologial father is a jerk. You son will learn.
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